Because humans are social, we realize our full potential when we connect with others. It doesn’t matter if a person is an introvert or an extrovert, relationships must given top priority – even if the actual number of relationships varies greatly from one personality type to the next.
As an introvert myself, I have fewer connections than many people I know, but these connections offer me everything I need to deal with the task of living (and loving) life. Read on to learn more about what three types of friends to value.
The Honest Friend
In my case, my most honest friend is my husband. Instead of wondering if he says what he truly means, I can count on him to always be truthful. Sometimes the truth can hurt. For example, I bought a great pair of flair jeans and a trendy top. Thinking he would like the outfit as well, I felt deflated when he told me “those jeans don’t flatter your figure.” That’s what I have come to count on, a friend who will help me to look my best! Needless to say, I only wear those jeans on days I don’t leave the house. Although a minor example of how true honesty can positively influence a friendship, it proves I never have to worry whether there is something he is hiding in our relationship.
The Fun Friend
Doesn’t it make sense to have a friend that you can laugh with? In essence, laughter is like medicine. Life throws a lot of difficulties at us all, but when we laugh, these problems don’t seem insurmountable. For instance, for many years I took care of my mother who suffered health problems due to cancer. One way I made it through that difficult time was by continuing to laugh, both with my mom and with a special friend who has a knack for being comical. My fun friend took the time to try to cheer me up, even going so far as taking me to funny movies. Now that my mom has passed, my friend continues to treat my grief with her special gift of laughter.
The Long Time Friend
A friend that’s been with you through the years is invaluable. Of course not everyone can say they have a friend from childhood like I do (over 38 years as friends), but people should strive to have at least one friend that will be there for you, and you for him or her, over the long haul. By doing so, you can reminisce about the good times and remember loved ones. Long time friends may disappoint us at times, but we need to remember that we do the same to them; the key is to forgive and vow to stick together through this wonderful journey called life.
Everyone needs friends. The number of friends doesn’t matter; it’s the quality of the relationship that does. Each of these friend types share one thing – they care. Strive to surround yourself with caring friends, and life will be that much sweeter.
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